As with all good things, when used obsessively they sometimes turn to vice. The online world seems to be one of those things; perfectly harmless when used in moderation. Unfortunately, the computer, like quicksand, entices users into its vast amusements, and before they know it, they've been sucked into its gaping vortex.
OK, maybe not quite that addictive, but it does possess a draw that many people find hard to resist. Who'd have thought that a little box sitting unobtrusively in houses all over the world (and in most houses in America) would entertain so completely. Its cold, metallic exterior appeals to us even as its bright whiteness causes our eyes to open wide and remain fixed on its face.
Throughout time, men have strived to unify the world across the oceans and continents so that global communication can flourish. Computers seemed an answer to this age-old quest, especially the online instant-messenger programs. Maybe they don't quite unify humanity, though.
AOL Instant Messenger remains one of the computer's most addictive programs especially for the younger population. It provides immediate contact with whomever else happens to be signed in to the program at that time.
For many, it's their only chance to talk to friends they never see or perhaps have never met (often not a healthy situation), or to update themselves with the latest drama or gossip. Talking online wipes out awkward conversations or struggling silences that exist in person or on the phone. No human contact, whether in voice or person, exists.
My eyes often glue themselves to the computer screen, while my fingers come alive with fast-paced communication sometimes seemingly totally detached from the brain.
Talking online leaves a disconnected and wondering taste in my mouth. How do I know they are focused on what I'm saying? I don't know if their facial expression is contradicting what comes out of their fingertips. And while it's not all bad, and AIM does assist in last-minute plans or keeping in touch with friends, I just wish there would be more human interaction instead of this cold, electronic mode of communication.
A friend of mine and I have decided to boycott AIM for an indefinite period to free our time for what we feel will be more productive avenues for these precious few minutes we're given. So far, no difficulties regarding communication have arisen because through the phone or e-mail all my contacts have stayed intact. I've found much more time to spend with my family and friends or doing other things I don't normally find the time to do _ sleeping, for example.
Other seductive sites, such as MySpace, Facebook and YouTube, and even e-mail, lure users in as well and can be just as addictive. I still use MySpace and e-mail (I don't have a Facebook page) to keep in touch but I'm trying to watch my time there as well. Sites such as MySpace and Facebook can be almost worse because so much time is spent setting them up and then updating them with fresh songs, backgrounds, pictures and taglines. Their selfish undertones promote a pointless dedication to making yourself look good on a Web page rather than working on your inner character and social skills.
The beauty of people lies not in their screen name, MySpace page, Facebook wall posts or even pictures and videos. It lies in their eyes; in the way they talk and interact with you; their mannerisms and personality traits; their conversation, their laughter and their voices. A person's real and genuine self rarely explodes with its full vitality over a computer screen. Maybe if we made more time to be with people, awkward moments and all, we might discover some incredible moments that morph into lasting memories.
In person, the fullness of who I am collides with the people around me and there is life, and depth coursing through a wide open world of faces!
Jessica Bailey is a senior at Lighthouse Christian Academy in Oneonta.
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